Ya I am so confused it! I again dizzy with the pile of work that I have not finished, my phone even want to come to the house. He said the hell he wants to vent about her problems with her boyfriend. It's nothing, because I was too dizzy thinking about my problem anymore. oh how I?
Fields in our friendship relationships often confused refuse an invitation or request friends. Although we often realize that we do not want to do things that are asked, but we often get stuck in our own answers. To reject a friend request is difficult. On the one hand we do not want to be perceived as a friend who is not callous, but on the other hand we do not allow the condition to provide time, ears and hearts to accept or hear the outpouring of friends of our own hearts.
Here is required from you to accept or reject it. Due to refuse an invitation or request of a person was not an easy thing. But like it or not we should be able to do it if we do not want to lose yourself. That is so necessary a wise way to say "no" to requests that we do not want. Yeah But what a way to give a statement of "no" from us so as not to hurt or offend our friends?
Well if we're ready to say "no" then give a friendly voice and show sympathy. Tell gently but firmly and say the words that would comfort her and so you have to keep smiling. Hopefully with what we just did make friends we can accept without any sense of offense that can hurt him. Because after all is not really our intention to ignore all problems of our friends, but it is our condition that is not possible to accept or listen to any of its vent.
Try to dare to say "no" from now on. Because if we dare to accept it anyway with the conditions we are not allowed, be prepared to accept or live with the heart that are less loose and sometimes makes us tired of the feeling of our own hearts. The point of all this is, if we do not feel able to accept it then we must dare to say "no". Because everything is backed by definite uncomfortable feeling forced.
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